According to Perkins, leaders should instill
optimism and remain self-confident while accepting their current situation.
Cultivating optimism in them, leaders could expect a ripple effect to their
adherents and eventually it would lead to the spread of optimism. Thus,
empowered mates could exert their maximum potential. As Perkins stated the
decision whether to be optimistic or not under adversity depends on the leader
hence he must judge the right timing to sound optimistic. In my opinion, the
extreme case of Shackleton could not be compared to cases occurring in
corporations as the book introduced. In Shackleton’s case, their final
destination was death or survival and the odds to incline in either side was
incalculable. In his situation, spreading optimism may have worked efficiently
as it helped the group to forget about the worst, and concentrate on survival,
thus mobilizing their performance. However, in the cases of corporations where thorough
estimations and calculations of their current situation and further risks could
be made, being overconfident may cause leaders to be reflected as ignorant and
fatuous.
Moving on to the negotiation task we had on Friday,
it is getting more difficult to achieve a win-win relation every class. More
people and options were involved in the hotel reservation negotiation which
made it more complicated. More questions were necessary to achieve the best
deal and as both sides thrived to benefit more, negotiations lasted longer. I
believe in real-life situations, a win-win relation is difficult to achieve and
occur infrequently, thus in most of the cases either player has to compromise,
just as the hotel negotiation we had. As the number of stakeholders, rivals,
and decision makings increase, negotiations become more sophisticated and
intense. Probably the rise of the intensity is one of the factors that separate
the superior negotiators from the mediocre ones, as it is when people tend to
lose their calmness and start to decide things based on their emotions.
I agree with your thoughts on negotiation. I think it takes a lot of patience and endurance to be a great negotiator. However, lately I have been having problems being to patient which causes an unfair negotiation. I end up trying to hold my anger when closing the conversation with a negotiation thats unfair on my side. I think it's best to balance out patience and argument levels
返信削除Very thoughtful post, and I agree with the points you make regarding both optimism and negotiation.
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