Today we evaluated our instincts as
negotiators through answering a number of questions concerning with our
preferences in times of negotiations. I found my own results interesting
because I had “competing” and “collaborating” as my predominant negotiation
style with the same points. These two styles share nothing in common but rather
are in the opposite extreme. I agree with the results because I tend to change
attitude depending on the person who I am negotiating with. In the negotiations
we had in class, adding to the goal to reach a win-win relation, we are in
intimate terms with whom we interacted with so I was able to collaborate with
my peers, trying to build trust to achieve the most out of the negotiation. However,
in real-life cases when we often have to face complete strangers, I may find it
uncomfortable to disclose information I have freely before building trust. Unless
my partner adopts an accommodating style or a compromising style, I might be
more offensive/defensive and persisting to ensure my own profit. I think I should
rework this kind of behavior to avoid conflicts in my future negotiations.
After
the questionnaire, we moved to a discussion about teamwork. In my experience,
Shackleton’s strategy to constantly reinforce the bonds within the team
mobilizes and enhances the team’s abilities. Each member can be more motivated
as they become aware that each one of them plays an important role that cannot
be substituted easily. As Perkins states, this way they can feel responsibility
and a sense of contribution to the group’s success possibly in both short and
long run. I think that sharing a sense of unity through creating a common
identity exerts positive affects to a team; however this may also have flaws
that may agonize adherents. As it came out in our discussion, sharing the idea
that every individual possess a responsibility to the group’s success or
failure may put pressure on them and prevent them from practicing their maximum
potential. Other than sharing a common idea, we also felt that such external
forces have limits on how much influence it has on keeping up motivation. To
enhance motivation within an individual who composes a team, I think it is also
important to nurture their interests towards their tasks, considering that a
sense of cooperation has been made already.
Hi Takumi!
返信削除Hmm...it's funny you got "competing" as one of your characteristics! I feel like you are "collaborating" but that's just my opinion!
I agree with you on "Each member can be more motivated as they become aware that each one of them plays an important role that cannot be substituted easily." This is just like rugby isn't it? Each player has his own position and he cannot be substituted in a matter of second most likely because of his body shape. I mean it's so hard when a back player has to play as a forward right? So that's why players have to watch out for injuries :) By the way, good luck tomorrow!
Moeka
Interestingly, I remember one of your former negotiation opponents saying how pleasant you were to work with, how accommodating. But as you say, these are your friends and getting along is a higher priority than anything else.
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